Dear 14 year old me,
I see you. If I could go back in time as the adult I am now, I would help you. I would tell you that IT’S NOT YOUR FAULT. I would tell you that I BELIEVE YOU. I would tell you that all those jerks who turned against you are WRONG. I would hug you. I would be a caring & trusting adult. I would REFER you to your local sexual assault agency. I would tell you your legal rights. I would tell you that reporting was NOT your only option. I would support whatever choice you made. I would comfort you. I would teach you about RAPE CULTURE. I would explain to you about VICTIM BLAMING and sexual harassment.
I would say I LOVE YOU.