It’s not your fault. You were in grade 9. Too young to fully understand that what he was doing was assault. J and I love you. Your strength is an amazing inspiration to us everyday. We know you check these and we want you to know that you are a survivor, not a victim. Like all the people on this site, you should be so proud of yourself. I know you feel guilty, but it wasn’t your fault. It was never your fault. He took advantage of you. You are not responsible for his actions or the things he made you do.